Discover a Healthier Family Dynamic with Lavender Lotus Wellness - Start Today!

Quantum Human Design is a literal blueprint or user's guide for yourself & family. With the wisdom of QHD, understanding the family dynamic has never been more accessible and straightforward.  No human operates exactly the same and knowing the differences between the people closest to you is vital to creating harmony in the home.  

Society has a lot of belief systems in place for what a family should look like, feel like and fit into the world like.  A lot of those belief systems have expired yet families are still chasing the "ideal" family structure regardless of if they agree with it or even realize they don't.  Generational practices & traumas have been passed down through families as law or "just the way it is".  De-conditioning societal beliefs as well as familial beliefs & traumas gives you the power to raise a family authentic to you, your partner (or not) and children. 

A child misbehaving does not equal a bad child or bad parent.  A child misbehaving is a valuable clue to guide you to what fundamental needs are not being met.  Children have limited vocabulary to communicate with their words therefore, they rely heavily on their actions.  Decoding the behaviors and underlying motivations is the key to understand where your child may be struggling in an effort to take corrective action.  

Traditional discipline needs to be thrown out and re-written.  The typical model of discipline involving power struggles, reactive behaviors (blowing up), finding anything/everything to take away, physical consequence (spanking), and time-out/restriction is a very dysfunctional model.  As parents we can set healthy boundaries, create correct consequences, side-step power struggles all while keeping our children's self-worth intact! 

Everyone has a story, a story of yourself, your family.  The story you tell yourself and others is probably not the story you'd like to be telling (otherwise you wouldn't be here).  Through this process we edit the story, pull out the parts you'd like to keep and create new chapters (neural pathways) for the parts you don't.  We establish the authentic story that you want for your life and your family. 

Creating a physical practice for your family to enjoy together is a wonderful way to connect.  With Yoga, not only is a physical practice cultivated but a meditation & intention based spiritual practice is fostered.  Physical asanas allow the body and mind to become flexible/resilient.  Yoga is a powerful tool for all aspects of life.